Seller Tips • When Life Happens • November 6, 2025

💔 Going Through a Divorce? You Don’t Have to Face the Home Sale Alone.

đź’” When Divorce Means Selling Your Home: Finding Peace and a Fresh Start in the Tacoma, Lakewood, and Pierce County Areas

Divorce is one of life’s hardest transitions – emotionally, financially, and sometimes, logistically. One of the most difficult decisions couples face is what to do with the family home.

If you’re in this situation, please know – you’re not alone. As a local Realtor in Lakewood, WA, I’ve helped many clients navigate the process of selling their home during or after a divorce with care, discretion, and understanding. My goal is simple: to help you move forward, not just move out.


🌸 Understanding Your Options

When a couple decides to part ways, the home often becomes the biggest shared asset — and the most emotionally charged one.
You generally have three main options:

  1. Sell the Home and Split the Proceeds
    This is often the cleanest financial choice. Selling gives both parties the chance to start fresh and move forward independently.

  2. Buy Out Your Spouse (or Vice Versa)
    One partner may want to stay in the home. In that case, we’ll work with lenders and appraisers to determine fair market value and create a smooth transition.

  3. Continue to Co-Own Temporarily
    In some cases, ex-partners choose to rent the home or keep ownership until the market or personal situations improve. This requires clear communication and legal agreements.


🏡 How I Help My Clients Through This Transition

Selling a home during a divorce isn’t just about the numbers — it’s about compassion, privacy, and clarity. Here’s what I offer to make things easier:

  • A no-pressure home value consultation to help you understand what your property is truly worth in today’s market.

  • Customized marketing plans designed to help your home sell quickly and at top value.

  • Collaboration with your legal and financial professionals to ensure all aspects of your sale align with your settlement.

  • Discreet, respectful communication – because I know emotions can run high, and my role is to make this process as smooth as possible.


đź’¬ Real Talk: You Deserve Support, Not Stress

Divorce can leave you feeling overwhelmed, uncertain, or even stuck. But the right plan (and the right Realtor) can make all the difference. I’m here to help you focus on the next chapter – not the chaos of this one.

If you’re unsure where to start, I offer a free consultations via zoom, phone or in person. Book your appointment here:

https://calendly.com/soldbylavita/30min


🌅 A Fresh Start Is Waiting

You deserve a peaceful, confident transition — and a home that fits your new beginning.
Whether you’re ready to sell or just need someone to walk you through your options, I’m here to help you take the next step.

Lavita Lester-Brinkley, Realtor®
Windermere Real Estate | Lakewood, WA